Honeymoon or Wedding? What would you do?
I would not go to a "wedding" given by a couple who has been married for awhile. That is a farce. Whatever you did when you got married the initial time, that is your wedding.|||First of all why do you feel if doesn't happen now that it will never happen? That would make me re-think this marriage. Secondy, you can take a trip any time. Why is a trip more important important than suppossedly life long vows? It seems that your mate is not really just excited about a wedding to begin with, rather he just likes being with you in the moment. Maybe you should ask your boyfriend why the trip is more important to him than making his vows.|||I'm engaged, and with a guy who wants to give me exactly what I want. He said the other day, "A wedding is like finding your soulmate... you shouldn't have to compromise on anything. You should be able to get exactly what you're looking for". This day is so important in your life (more so than his... it's different for girls!) and I think you should do what YOU want! A dream honeymoon to me isn't as important as a dream wedding. You can always take vacations for a romantic getaway later in life. Follow your heart and you won't regret it!|||Have your dream wedding, if it means so much to you, and it sounds as if it does. My fiance' and I were in a similar perdictament, but decided that we would rather have our dream wedding, spend our honeymoon in a neighboring city in a nice hotel, and save for the next year so that we can have a nice first anniversary trip. We're thinking Italy since I have friends there. Sounds like you have deeper issues than whether you should have a dream wedding or a great honeymoon...Why is he hedging on the wedding? And why do you think it won't happen later down the road? Trust and communication are key to a lasting relationship.|||you should have a wedding!|||Remember the most important dream is to actually be marrying the one that you love and want to spend your life with. Ceremonies are just that and just because one doesn't spend a lot of money on a wedding, doesn't mean it isn't special, afterall your real dream is coming true, marrying your beloved.
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