My friend continues to arrive late wherever we go out together. It's really getting on my nerve
She's always at least an hour late and I don't know how to deal with this. I really don't think this is how to treat a friend. Not only that, but when friend of hers turned up at her house whilst I was there, she spent half an hour with her at the front door and just left me sitting there on my own in her sitting room.
My friend continues to arrive late wherever we go out together. It's really getting on my nerves?secure browserWell, does your friend have any idea of how her behaviour is making you feel? If not, perhaps now is the time to tell her.
It could be possible that she is incredibly insensitive and has no idea that what she is doing is making you feel undervalued. You must talk to her about this, and tell her that when she does these things you feel upset. Perhaps you should stress to her that it's her behaviour and not her personally that is distressing you.
if she cares about you she will not want to make you feel this way and will listen to what you have to say.
it does all sound a little rude and selfish to me, if she does not mend her ways, there are probably other people that you could spend your valuable time with.
Somebody who is your friend would never want to be the source of your unhappiness, if she doesn't take your feeling seriously then I think you have to question whether you have a real friend here or not? The choice is always yours, you do not have to spend your time with her if she continues to hurt you, but if i were you i would talk to her about it and at least give her a chance to make amends
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