Long term relationship: She stays out late. I do not and getting frustrated. How can we get through

She works a retail job with an odd schedule. I work as computer programmer with a set schedule and weekends off. I goto bed at Midnight and wake up at 8-8:30am every day and I am also a light sleeper.

Lately, she has been going out with her friends at night then coming home around 2-3am, maybe usually once a week, sometimes twice. She always invites me out but I don't like staying out late in the middle of the week because of work. Usually she hasn't been going out this often. I am starting to get frustrated by being woken up when I hear the key hit the door and she drags herself to the bed then passes out, leaving me wide awake for another hour. The following work day, I'm tired and it is difficult to concentrate on my work.

We've lived together for a few years now and I feel like we communicate very well. With this topic however, she tells me that she understands how I feel but will not compromise because she likes going out with her friends and have fun.

Long term relationship: She stays out late. I do not and getting frustrated. How can we get through this?opera mobile

Ask her if she could make it a point to come in a little quieter. Have separate bedrooms. Put your foot down and tell her it's unacceptable. Leave her.

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