Does anybody have a brother like this?.. hes driving me insane and nobody understands?

ok hes 20 years old. no job. no gf, ever in his life. lives @ home, goes to college 3 days a week. watches jeopardy everyday. listens to classical music or religious catholic opera-like music. he has like 3 or 4 friends but none of them really hang out with him. hes constantly judging me. today i wouldn't give him the remote for the tv so dumps a waterbottle all over me. he said this to me "o my gosh gina every day that you don't have school you always get calls on that phone and your always hanging out with your friends. your obsessed with them. you dont like hanging out with your family" my parents are divorced and he thinks hes the man of the house. if my mom has to take me to a friends house he insists on coming along for the ride. if my mom wants to take me underwear shopping he goes along and nods his head in disapproval when he sees me buying thonhgs. (even though my mom approves of them)... he reads over my shoulder when im on aim. we have 2 phones in the house, and if someone

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And if someone...? No offense, but he's a cock who watches you like a hawk. I don't know why he does, but he's not the man of the house. You should have a talk with him. Tell him he's not the man of the house. He lives his life, you live yours. You're old enough that he doesn't need to be watching everything you do. You don't watch him, so why should he? He needs a job, a girlfriend, a home, and more friends. There's three things that are coming out of his behaviour. 1, he doesn't want you following the wrong path in life2, he thinks that just because your parents are divorced, he's in your father's position now, and he can do whatever he wants with you, and 3, he's becoming "drunk" on the power he has now. Just because you hang out with your friends a lot doesn't mean you hate your family. You spend time with them. Tell him he needs a life, because he can't be living off your parents anymore. He needs to be responsible. He needs a job and his own pay. Sure, he goes to college, but he should make money in his free time instead of doing nothing. And dumping a waterbottle on you? Now that's just childish. He can't be judging you either. Tell him to give you some space so you can make your own decisions. You can't have him controlling your life, because that would be like him playing god.

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Does anybody have a brother like this?.. hes driving me insane and nobody understands?

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