Need input on ex boyfriend who is in Iraq, who now has a girl friend and we are both real confused.?

I have been talking to my ex boyfriend who is currently in Iraq. He has a new girl friend right now and we have been talking on line and I know it is wrong but we did and still do anyway. I think we both still have feelings for one another but we have been confused on how to go about it. I am almost 100% positive that he isn’t what I want in my life however I still do care about him a great deal.

He sent me these e-mails yesterday and these are my responses.

L Sent:

If I tell you something, can you keep it to you?? Please! It's about J and me. I just need an opinion from either an ex or someone I trust, sounds crazy but I think I need your opinion. Ok, here's what I did. Please tell me if I'm wrong, if I would have done this to you.

I gave J an ultimatum. I have been told by reliable sources that She is not being totally honest with me, so, I put someone on the task Of watching her at certain times of the day and night. Ok, hold on There! She has been out several times,,,no biggy,,, but couldn't acct for Her time out. So I found out through my Mom and her sis that she has been talking to an ex. So I told her to get a copy of her phone calls, Itemized, make a copy and give both to my Mother, then my Mother is to Send one of them to me. Is that wrong? She's not going to do it, so I Told her, it was her loss and her kids, not mine!

I feel like a control freak, but she pushed me to this point by not Being able to accurately account for her time out at the clubs.

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Need input on ex boyfriend who is in Iraq, who now has a girl friend and we are both real confused.?

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