I'm in a crisis situation!!!!?
Ok so I live in a city where I know noone. My husband, daughter and I just moved to San Jose due to his job and we have no family or friends here yet. I'm 38 weeks pregnant and I'm scheduled to have a c-section on Wednesday because my baby is breech. Now for the problem, who's going to watch my 2 year old daughter? We don't know anyone and I've never left her a day in her life let alone 4 days to recover from a c-section. Why 4 days here in California, I have no idea. Where we used to live it was just 2 days for a c-section and now all of a sudden it's 4 DAYS!!!! I'm stressing out BIG TIME and I'm not sure what to do. The only way we can possibly have someone watch her is if the c-section is done before Monday but should I bring it up to my doctor? What do I do? I'm freaking out and it's literally hurting my stomach. What do you think?
I'm in a crisis situation!!!!?binocularsI don't think I can add to these answers, these all seem very good. I'm in a similar situation, but fortunately in the last few month met through mutual friends and made very good friends with a Doula who's going to help us out.
Thinking about flying out an available family member, and talking to your doctor are two very good ideas. The latter I would do immediately. But my main reason for writing is to reiterate the calming down advice. Easier said than done, I know, but its probably one of the Best things you can do in your situation, and freaking out won't present a solution. Breathe deep, and best of luck to all 4 of you.
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